I think that it's utterly disrespectful and demeaning to the years spent loving each other to tear each other down by the very things that we used to build each other up in the first place.
Using the little details to hurt someone that has "wronged" us is petty and speaks more of the character of the person doing it than the person it's done to. Still, it doesn't make it hurt less.
It disappoints me that there are people in our world that take delight in the trampling of another humans spirit. There are people hurting and trying to heal, with dignity and regard, and they have to take on the actions of someone who should have more self-respect.
I want to be able to protect and shield my friends, family, loved ones from these deep to the bone hurts and I can't. We all have to walk through them, it's the only way we can come out on the other side.
We don't come out the same, but we do come out. It takes time, patience, love, and support. It takes family. It takes friends. It takes moments and it takes a lifetime.
A friend once asked me for one thing: right-wrong-indifferent-100%. Never doubt that it is given, always, without thought or question. I would never fight your battles for you, but I will stand at your side in any and every way that I can.
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